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According to Jenna Goudreau of Forbes, as of 2011, “women have surpassed men in achieving advanced college degrees, in addition to attaining 57 percent of undergraduate degrees.”Despite the crazy ups and downs of women’s salaries in VA over the past decade, we’re making more money, too.
According to Paul Wiseman of USA Today, “single, childless women in their twenties are finding success in the city: They're out-earning their male counterparts in the USA's biggest metropolitan areas.”“Women ages 22 to 30 with no husband and no kids earn a median ,000 a year, 8 percent more than comparable men in the top 366 metropolitan areas”So, RVA probably isn’t the first thing that comes to mind when we think of a booming metropolis. This is all pretty damning news for the smarty-pants, single ladies of RVA. Guys who are educated, have good jobs, a car, your own place, etc.—I know you’re out there!
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“I really, really want to date you, but I’m too intimidated.” He’s a shitheel, and I’m better off without him, but this one sentence keep echoing because it matches the story that not only have I been telling myself for years, but that my family, and friends, and the culture at large tells us: intelligent, capable women who talk about how they feel and what they want scare the crap out of men. It doesn’t help when my brothers, my father, married women I know, single women, all just sort of shrug and go, “It’s distasteful, but true.” Which feels shitty!
Are you hiding from these sharp-witted single ladies?
Or is it just that men list their priorities differently? Why do smart women love smart men more than smart men love smart women?
That doesn’t mean we’re incapable of being satisfied spending our life in pairs, tuning into each other emotionally, living together, cooperating, and, yes, ACTIVELY SEEKING TO SATISFY EACH OTHER. I don’t believe that men are such abject losers that they can’t bear to be in the company of great women.
Most of the men I know would leap out of their skin with joy at meeting a woman who’s hot and smart and has an established career and asks for what she wants directly.
So it’s not just This Dude, it’s The President, it’s Men Today or Men Always.The study found that men were generally attracted to good looking women who were "relatively clever" however had a tendency to "draw a line in the sand" when it came to a woman's intellect.Researchers found that male daters believed that a woman with an extremely high intellect was subsequently an "economic bad".— doesn’t suit his essential nature and will only make him miserable?It’s pretty fucking hard to be happy when your culture informs you at every turn that your happiness is an impossibility. “You want to fuck everything you see.” Um, newsflash: Some small part of all animal brains wants to fuck everything it sees and eat everything it sees and sleep half the day.