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Once we are happy as a single person it's easy to not date the wrong people, because we are happy on our own.If your happiness is contingent upon a relationship or another person, it's doomed to fail, because nothing should be more powerful than your own relationship with you. I’ve been ghosted after so many first dates that it’s hard to to imagine ever having a successful second rendezvous, let alone a third. Plus, when you have the right tools, dating actually doesn’t have to be such a bummer. Once you change your approach and perspective, you’ll see dating apps as a blessing, not an exhausting curse. I’ve messaged with countless people, only to have it lead nowhere. )But listen (LISTEN TO ME), although online dating can be frustrating, your future partner might be out there swiping for you, so you shouldn't give up.
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Those are your responsibilities and duties as an adult. You think there is someone out there who is attracted to "The ONE who loves kids and her job. " Nobody cares that you like spending time with your kids or enjoy your job. When you spend months with someone and begin caring for them, you start to think of them and become curious about who they are.
You have kids, therefore it's your responsibility to take care of them. This is very different than most first dates where people ask questions they think they should, like reading from a script.
If you aren't happy and optimistic then you shouldn't be online dating (to begin with).
To be truly available for someone else we have to be happy with who we are.
So instead of spending all your money, attention, and cellular data on every app under the sun, just choose one that actually works—and put your focus there.